Sunday, November 10, 2013

Simple ways to solve problems.

Simple ways to solve problems.

Five Ways For Using Light Remedies To Solve Problems When You're In Bad Condition(s).
1. You get into a big argument with your spouse. You consider your options: ignore him or her for a few weeks; go argue with more force than ever; hire a marriage counselor to referee the fight.
You then think, "What is the lightest remedy I can use?" and come up with a light solution. You apologize. All is well.
2. You do not have enough time. You are extremely busy and fall behind. You can't seem to get things done. You consider screaming and throwing things or just giving up.
But then you consider light solutions and have a bright idea. "I'll keep a time log to see where I spend my time." You discover three people are wasting dozens of your hours each week. You gently remove them from your life and you suddenly have enough time to do what you want to do.
3. Your boss is angry with you, but you don't know why. Your work has not gotten worse, you show up on time and you have not caused any problems. You think of getting angry at your boss or getting your coworkers to hate him.
Instead, you think of a simple remedy. You ask your boss, "Are you angry with me?" He says, "No, sorry I snapped at you. My darn car won't start." You feel relieved.
4. You are drowning in debt. You made too many financial commitments and are now unable to pay everything you agreed to pay. You think of robbing a bank, going into hiding or ruining your credit reputation with bankruptcy.
You ask yourself, "What is the lightest remedy I can use to solve my money problems?" You realize, "I just need to focus on making more money, all day long." Or "I just need to sell some stuff." Or "Starting now, I will spend less than I make for the rest of my life."
5. You are frustrated and confused by a government regulation concerning your business. You consider hiring an expensive attorney, bribing a politician or going underground to avoid the rule.
But then you remember a simple remedy and get out your dictionary. You carefully read the government regulation and look up each word you do not understand. You suddenly understand the regulation and realize you are already complying with it.
Recommendation.
Whenever you feel frustrated by a condition that is getting worse and worse, do not look for desperate, heavy or complicated solutions. Instead, ask yourself questions like these:
1. "What light remedy can I use for this bad condition?"
2. "What is the simplest, most obvious solution?"
3. "How could I solve this with the least amount of time, work or money?"
4. "What solution, if it worked, would make me laugh?"
5. "What is the lightest way to handle this problem?"
You might be pleasantly surprised to find your worst conditions can be solved with the lightest solutions.Try using those ways to solve your problems and see the change.
WORD OF THE DAY:''Are you happy? If YES keep going and if NO change something.''

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